What I do for a living part II



Sorry for the teaser yesterday, I started writing and realized this needed to be a two part entry. There's just so much to share!

If you missed part one, it's an easy read you can find here.

Continuing...

My studying of stewardship was like a year of philosophy. I don't remember how many philosophy courses I took in college, but I remember I enjoyed them. I enjoyed that you could never really be right or wrong. My classmates and I respected one another and debated without hateful words or derogatory statements. I just love a lesson that makes you think and leaves you wanting more. I would leave philosophy class with my mind wide open and a different outlook on life. Even the world looked different "Has that tree always been there? What a beautiful tree! That rose garden is so pretty, I think I'll go smell the roses"

My year of philosophical studying of theological teachings on stewardship was phenomenal. It opened my mind, but because it was centered around God it also opened my heart. Such an amazing experience! It was a blessing that I was planning my wedding during this time and I used my new found knowledge to avoid stress.

So - stewardship...Let's begin with this:
(
"Heaven's the place where all the dogs you've ever loved come to greet you"
"So you're little Bobbie, well Rex has been going on and on about you for the last 50 years"
(Sorry, I'm in a "I love my dogs" mood today)


I will use Stewardship to guide your self discovery towards holiness.

There are 4 components of a good steward:

A steward is GRATEFUL
Part one of step 1: Acknowledge you are not in control. All our blessings come from somewhere else.
Easiest example: you in your sleep. You are not in control while sleeping. If you are then you are not getting a very restful sleep. Simple enough. Someone is keeping you safe and alive when you are at your most vulnerable...in your sleep.

This is only part one of step one and this is where most people get stuck. They think they are in control (I sure did! At one point I had a blog titled "The life I choose to live" Sounds so selfish!) They refuse to believe there is a higher power.
Part two of step 1: Thank this higher power. Cultures have been doing it for centuries. Offering sacrifices, offering prayers and first fruits. Once you begin to be grateful for the little things, you'll find gratefulness in the big things. "I found a quarter! Thanks be to God." "I am healthy. Thanks be to God" "My work is stressful; but this is a great growing opportunity. Thanks be to God". 
TRY THIS FOR ONE WEEK and see how your outlook on life changes. I find it best to send this grateful "energy" (hubby hates that word) to a higher power. If you belive this higher power is energy - cite Newton's 3rd Law: "for every action there is an opposite and equal reaction". Therefore I give energy to this power, He'll give energy back to me. 

Thanks be to God you read through Step 1. I am grateful. ;) 

 A steward is RESPONSIBLE
The things we are grateful for, we are also responsible for. If we are truly grateful, we will be responsible. 
We're not saying "I am grateful for my health" as we eat a bag of potato chips or get drunk. We say "I am grateful for my health and I will continue take care of my health." Let's face it. Acknowledging our gifts will remind us that we have many gifts and we must take care of them. If you wake up feeling sick you'll take medicine. But if you wake up feeling fine, will you take vitamins? will you eat healthy? Let's not wait on the unfortunate situation to occur, when we could be building our strength now. (Yogis, cross-fitters and exercise gurus understand this) 
But it goes for ALL things in our life. Our health is easy because we see it daily. What about our faith? How do we claim responsibility for that? Our relationships with others? Can we take responsibility for the friends we hang on to? for the family we talk to (or avoid). God has put those people in our life, we are responsible for our relationship with them. 

A steward is GENEROUS
When we are grateful and responsible it is easy to become generous. Who doesn't like to share the good things in life? Do you have friends or family who are always willing to give their time, their possessions or their money? You might be thinking "what is with these people?!" Perhaps they find their blessings to be such a gift from God they want to share it. Another easy example of this is a child. New mothers and fathers are grateful for their newborn. They claim responsibility of their newborn and they wish to share him/her with the world/ 
No good parent, is hiding their child from their family and friends. 


A steward makes a return to the Lord with increase.
I like to use the following visualization: You die. You have a basket full of the gifts God gave you and you walk up to the pearly gates with your basket. Do you say to God: "Here I am with my gifts! I am returning them to you!" Or are you dragging your basket, along with many other baskets saying: "Here are the gifts you gave me! I am returning them and because I used them according to your will, they have multiplied!" We want what God has given us to multiply here on Earth right? We always seek more and more. But are we giving back to the Lord with increase? Why not? 


The pessimist says "my cup is half empty"
The optimist says "my cup is half full"
The Child of God says "my cup runneth over!"


This is a portion of my 'Stewardship and the New Evangelization" presentation. It goes deeper into the Eucharist and evangelizing fallen away Catholics. I've always wanted to be a motivational speaker. I was never a cheerleader in high school but I find myself to be the biggest fan of my family, friends, alma maters, city, town, etc. You always want to be paid to do what you love. I guess you could say I am doing that now. Thanks be to God!

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high heels and grits: What I do for a living part II

Thursday, October 24, 2013

What I do for a living part II



Sorry for the teaser yesterday, I started writing and realized this needed to be a two part entry. There's just so much to share!

If you missed part one, it's an easy read you can find here.

Continuing...

My studying of stewardship was like a year of philosophy. I don't remember how many philosophy courses I took in college, but I remember I enjoyed them. I enjoyed that you could never really be right or wrong. My classmates and I respected one another and debated without hateful words or derogatory statements. I just love a lesson that makes you think and leaves you wanting more. I would leave philosophy class with my mind wide open and a different outlook on life. Even the world looked different "Has that tree always been there? What a beautiful tree! That rose garden is so pretty, I think I'll go smell the roses"

My year of philosophical studying of theological teachings on stewardship was phenomenal. It opened my mind, but because it was centered around God it also opened my heart. Such an amazing experience! It was a blessing that I was planning my wedding during this time and I used my new found knowledge to avoid stress.

So - stewardship...Let's begin with this:
(
"Heaven's the place where all the dogs you've ever loved come to greet you"
"So you're little Bobbie, well Rex has been going on and on about you for the last 50 years"
(Sorry, I'm in a "I love my dogs" mood today)
  • The goal in life is to get to heaven
  • Catholics believe your actions on this earth will be taken into consideration at the 'pearly gates'. (A concept not all faiths believe)
  • So if you want to get into heaven, you should live a life like the one guy we know is in heaven: Jesus.
  • The next goal in life is to become Christ like. To become Christ like we must become holy. To become holy we must change.
  • Challenge #1: Change. Change is difficult for everyone. We are convinced what weare doing (or are not doing) is going to make us a better person, make this Christ like, get them into Heaven.


I will use Stewardship to guide your self discovery towards holiness.

There are 4 components of a good steward:

A steward is GRATEFUL
Part one of step 1: Acknowledge you are not in control. All our blessings come from somewhere else.
Easiest example: you in your sleep. You are not in control while sleeping. If you are then you are not getting a very restful sleep. Simple enough. Someone is keeping you safe and alive when you are at your most vulnerable...in your sleep.

This is only part one of step one and this is where most people get stuck. They think they are in control (I sure did! At one point I had a blog titled "The life I choose to live" Sounds so selfish!) They refuse to believe there is a higher power.
Part two of step 1: Thank this higher power. Cultures have been doing it for centuries. Offering sacrifices, offering prayers and first fruits. Once you begin to be grateful for the little things, you'll find gratefulness in the big things. "I found a quarter! Thanks be to God." "I am healthy. Thanks be to God" "My work is stressful; but this is a great growing opportunity. Thanks be to God". 
TRY THIS FOR ONE WEEK and see how your outlook on life changes. I find it best to send this grateful "energy" (hubby hates that word) to a higher power. If you belive this higher power is energy - cite Newton's 3rd Law: "for every action there is an opposite and equal reaction". Therefore I give energy to this power, He'll give energy back to me. 

Thanks be to God you read through Step 1. I am grateful. ;) 

 A steward is RESPONSIBLE
The things we are grateful for, we are also responsible for. If we are truly grateful, we will be responsible. 
We're not saying "I am grateful for my health" as we eat a bag of potato chips or get drunk. We say "I am grateful for my health and I will continue take care of my health." Let's face it. Acknowledging our gifts will remind us that we have many gifts and we must take care of them. If you wake up feeling sick you'll take medicine. But if you wake up feeling fine, will you take vitamins? will you eat healthy? Let's not wait on the unfortunate situation to occur, when we could be building our strength now. (Yogis, cross-fitters and exercise gurus understand this) 
But it goes for ALL things in our life. Our health is easy because we see it daily. What about our faith? How do we claim responsibility for that? Our relationships with others? Can we take responsibility for the friends we hang on to? for the family we talk to (or avoid). God has put those people in our life, we are responsible for our relationship with them. 

A steward is GENEROUS
When we are grateful and responsible it is easy to become generous. Who doesn't like to share the good things in life? Do you have friends or family who are always willing to give their time, their possessions or their money? You might be thinking "what is with these people?!" Perhaps they find their blessings to be such a gift from God they want to share it. Another easy example of this is a child. New mothers and fathers are grateful for their newborn. They claim responsibility of their newborn and they wish to share him/her with the world/ 
No good parent, is hiding their child from their family and friends. 


A steward makes a return to the Lord with increase.
I like to use the following visualization: You die. You have a basket full of the gifts God gave you and you walk up to the pearly gates with your basket. Do you say to God: "Here I am with my gifts! I am returning them to you!" Or are you dragging your basket, along with many other baskets saying: "Here are the gifts you gave me! I am returning them and because I used them according to your will, they have multiplied!" We want what God has given us to multiply here on Earth right? We always seek more and more. But are we giving back to the Lord with increase? Why not? 


The pessimist says "my cup is half empty"
The optimist says "my cup is half full"
The Child of God says "my cup runneth over!"


This is a portion of my 'Stewardship and the New Evangelization" presentation. It goes deeper into the Eucharist and evangelizing fallen away Catholics. I've always wanted to be a motivational speaker. I was never a cheerleader in high school but I find myself to be the biggest fan of my family, friends, alma maters, city, town, etc. You always want to be paid to do what you love. I guess you could say I am doing that now. Thanks be to God!

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